Even my childhood crushes were secular

Rekha & Rajan going for a drive

After I wrote about the four actresses who have influenced my life over the last fifty years, one of my Facebook friend and reader pointed out something I had not noticed.

He said, “Rajan, without even knowing it, you were promoting national integration.”

I said, “How?”

He said, “Look at your crush list.”

And that is when it hit me….he was right.

Khushbu was born Nakhat Khan, a Muslim.

Simran was born Rishibala Naval, a Sikh.

Trisha was Trisha Krishnan, a Hindu.

Nayanthara was born Diana Mariam Kurian, a Christian.

Four actresses…from four different religions. What were the chances of this useless but secular lady-lover selecting such heroines?

Once Sundeep shared the news with me, I sat there quietly for a few seconds because this was a big moment in my life.

All these years I thought I was just a confused man falling in love with actresses who did not know I existed. But apparently, I was bringing the country together.

My national integration slogan is no longer “Mile sur mera tumhara”…it is now “Mile crush mera tumhara.”

Of course, I did not plan any of this. But then great movements are not always understood by the people who start them.

When Gandhi started walking to Dandi, maybe even he did not know how big the Salt March would become.

Come to think of it, a man named Jamshed Velayuda Rajan cannot have narrow crushes….he can’t love only within his religion or region.

Besides being big, his heart also has to be broad. His foolishness has to be pan-India.

But now I have a problem. As you are aware…I need an actress who will help me tide over my 50s…but now she has to be a Buddhist, Jain or Jew.

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